The Shibari Lounge

The Shibari Lounge

The place to not only lose yourself, but find yourself too

our Location

Estuary Dungeon & Shibari Lounge is based in the beautiful Leigh-on-Sea, Essex. Just a short walk from the C2C train station which takes you directly to London Fenchurch street, a 10 minute drive from London Southend airport and a stone throw away from the bustling Broadway full of cafes, restaurants and shops.


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What’s on at Estuary Dungeon & Shibari Lounge?

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Want it all to yourself?

  • Private tuition and/or private tying sessions can be organised and the studio space can also be hired for what ever tickles your fancy! check out the links below for more information on what we can offer and what exciting events you can look forward to!

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What you can expect from us…

  • Join our rope jams for a tie along and to practice your new kinbaku skills. Shibari Practitioners will be on hand to teach you vital techniques that encompass important safety tips and tricks and the must know nerve and human anatomy information… whether you’re looking to either kick start your journey or continue an amazing adventure in the art of Shibari, we can help!

  • Exciting workshops from community leaders in their area of expertise. We’re strong advocates for teaching and we want to make sure that you learn from the best! Safety, Consent and Communication are all very important things to be hot on.

I have attended several events here and have enjoyed all of them. Everyone is very welcoming and you couldn’t wish for better hosts

One of the events I attended was the Shibari 101 course. I learnt so much and the time just seemed to fly. Both Bex & Jon are amazing teachers. Not only in terms of the practical skills but also their central focus on safety and consent. This combination creates a really safe environment in which to explore and discover. Looking forward to attending more events in future.

Thank you both for all the time and effort you put into creating such a positive, versatile and safe space in which people can explore their interests without fear or prejudice
— GothKinkster

What people are saying…

Thank you so much for making me feel welcome for my first time at Esturary Dungeon! The place is done out beautifully and the vibe was fun and friendly. Can’t wait to come again 😊
— JellyBeanKiss
so started on my shibati lessons journey with Bex and for me that i have always wanted to do some 121 with someone starting from scratch, really appreciated the comfortable area in doing it and learning something I’ve wanted to do for a long time, Bex is an amazing teacher and makes it very easy for you to learn. Looking forward to more sessions with Bex
— misskatthrone

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